For some Moms, they are head over heels in love for their
teeny tiny babies the moment they pop them out and take their first breath. For
some Moms, it happens the first week when they open their eyes long enough to
gaze into their mother’s heart. For some, it happens the first month after all
the traumatic experience of birthing the bundle is over and done with. And then
there are Moms like me. It took me months to feel bonded to my little precious
sunshines. And I didn’t even have postpartum depression! I mean I knew I loved
them in my head and my 2nd one happened quicker for me than my
first. But I am talking about that overwhelming sense of wanting to give my
life for these kids. Knowing I would die in their place. Knowing my heart
couldn’t live without them. Knowing I get to experience unexplainable joy
watching them grow.
Thankfully, I had read in some book somewhere that it takes
each mother a different amount of time to bond with their new babies. So, I
didn’t freak out about it. And nobody could probably tell by observing me with
my babies. I think my husband bonded quicker than I did! He held our baby girl
fresh out of the womb all covered in that white stuff and announced, “I am a
changed man!” He is not an emotional person so this was a big statement for
him. He then continued to tell all of his friends and family members that upon
his first conversations with them after her birth.
I, on the other hand, could hardly keep my eyes open due to
all the drugs from an emergency c-section. I am surprised I could nurse but by
husband and mother held her up to me and that child latched the first time and
never had a problem. I just wondered how I was going to continue nursing when I
got home and did not have four extra hands to help me. Oh, the funny thoughts
of first time parenting. They are so ridiculous but so real at the time.
Although I hate the no sleep, no showers, and no extra time
because of the relentless feedings, laundry, poop, throw up and messes to
attend too. Those new born days are full of such sweet memories for both of my
babies. There is just nothing in life that compares to it. There is a short
time of pure euphoria when everything seems brighter, kinder and more alive
than ever before. When the whole world stops and nothing else matters except
for your little family unit. Where it doesn’t matter what wars, floods, and
hurricanes are going on. All that matters is the love that is shared between a
woman, man and child. A new Mom, Dad and Baby make a family and it is such a beautiful
thing to behold.
The Lord is always giving us a picture and glimpse into His
love for us in so many ways. But the love between a parent and child is the
utmost, highest and most pure form of love we can find here on earth. The
Heavenly Father God gave us His Son, Jesus Christ, to be tortured and die in
our place. It is hard to comprehend that kind of love. I would not give my son
up for anyone or anything in this world. And I also would not hesitate to
throw myself in front of a speeding bus to save my child. Now that I have children, I can better grasp
the expense of the blood that was shed for me.
Thank you Lord for allowing me to understand Your love for
me better by allowing me to experience my own love for my children.
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